It was soooo hard choosing just 1!! While skiing in Colorado last month I met the hottest ski instructor! We decided to go back to his place where I met his cute roommate. He offered to film us, and it turned into a naughty threesome! Can't wait to show you how I handled them both! This video will be uploading to your inbox in 1 hour, so stay tuned!!
He babes!!! How's everyone doing tonight? So, many of you know that I have been recovering from surgery. I had my boobs upgraded and my waist snatched. My surgery was last Tuesday, so today is exactly a week out. I'm feeling "okay", but not great. I'm still pretty sore. The boob part was basically a breeze, not much pain at all, but the lipo was insanely painful on day 2-3 after surgery. As you all know I didn't have a lot of fat around my waist, but I figured since I was going under the knife to have my boobs redone, I might as well go for it and do a little lipo. I didn't do a BBL or ab etching or anything extreme, I just had a bit of fat removed on the lower belly and flanks thus making my waist 3-4 inches smaller. The healing process is about 1 month, so I was pretty proud of myself for shooting today. The real licker is while my body is healing wonderfully I seemed to have picked up the flu or covid! I hope not covid, but I am starting to wonder, because for the last 2 days I've had a headache, chills, scratchy throat and overall feeling weak. At first I thought it was just the aftermath of surgery, but now I don't think that, because the areas of my body that were operated on look great (very little bruising or swelling) and the incisions are already healing up nicely. I just think I unfortunately picked up a bug! :( If I still feel this way tomorrow I will go to Urgent Care or something.
So, back to my surgery...I went just a tad larger with my boobs. Perhaps they look a lot bigger to you, but it's probably because I had fat removed from waist creating that extreme hourglass shape. But I am also wearing a compression suit, which is prescribed by the doctor to wear for 1 month. It's crazy to think I have to wear this for a month!!! The only time I'm permitted to take it off is for 1 hour per day while I shower. Otherwise, it should stay on all the time, even sleep in it (which is miserable). The compression suit prevents swelling and aids in the healing process. Let me tell you...it is tight!! Beyond tight. For someone like me who loves comfortable, loose clothing in my regular, off-camera life, this is NOT FUN, lol!! But it's part of the process.
Happy Monday guys (and girls)!! My trip to Florida went well, and now I am back home. Ya'll have been giving me some great sex questions, and also some good relationship questions in general. One of the questions I received was something to the extent of this: "How do you keep a man happy in a long-term relationship, when science has proven that men get bored with having sex with the same woman after a certain amount of time and then they go cheat on her." LOL!! Ohhh my goodness. Wow...okayyyyy. There has to be a better way to word this question, lol?? At first I was shocked by this guy's question, because it sounded so misogynistic, and from my point of view the men I'm with better be worried I don't get bored, lolol! However, he went on to explain that he followed many beautiful women online that were constantly complaining about their men cheating and treating them poorly. This subject is very very complex, and cannot be summed up in a brief post. I think people are people, and they have different personalities and tendencies. The truth is anyone can get bored. Sex is a powerful drug. Your sex drive alone is a powerful force, because that type of pleasure is the reason we're all here in the first place. For some people sex is a must -- it is a life requirement, they require it in order to function. Others can take it or leave it, it's not a high priority for them. If hindsight is 20/20 you want a partner that views sex in the same way as you do. This is not always possible, because people can change over time depending on life events. But yeah when you get bored you've got to find a fair solution, because for many people they certainly don't want to hurt their partner or make a huge mistake that causes them serious troubles or loss. That's where communication is key. Of course, you don't want to say, "hey I'm bored with you", but there are ways to address this in a respectful manner. For some couples it's as simple as having sex more often, trying new things or being more attentive/romantic, while other couples might seek greater amounts of stimulation with threesome and whatnot.
As for the women online complaining about being cheated on, well in my opinion that itself tells you a lot about them. Yeah, it's 2021 and most everyone is on social media, but constantly exposing the details of your personal relationship(s) makes you seem mentally unstable, definitely not someone I would date. Having said that some people are simply doomed for relationship problems, because they are impossible to get along with AND they typically seek out losers, and then expect a good result. You've heard the expression, "their picker is broken", well that is very true of some people. They couldn't pick a good partner if their life depended on it.
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Happy Saturday!!! Ya'll have been giving me the best questions lately, and I feel like a kid in a candy-question-shop, lol!! What to answer next!!?? Okay, so a question/topic I received a few times was asking about my thoughts on anal sex. Even though there's nothing new under the sun, and the butt is definitely an erogenous zone, I think anal sex has become crazy popular and more common over the last 20 years. But before that even in porn it just wasn't readily celebrated among heterosexuals'. You didn't see much of it in the era of Jenna Jameson. I feel like that era of adult stars were beautiful and sexy with good bodies, and they had beautiful, well-lit, happy sex with handsome men, lol. Nowadays I feel like it has changed dramatically and I don't think for the better. It's a lot of shock value type material and a lot of sexual acts that aren't particularly good for women. And the worst part it is really deceives impressionable y0unger men on what real life sex is all about, and what real women are wanting (and not wanting). They forget that adult actors are getting paid and the more extreme acts, the higher the pay. So, that's that part, but back to anal sex for real life people. My overall opinion is if it feels good and the woman is enjoying it, then it's a great thing. Anal sex can be tricky, because sometimes it's wonderful and mind-blowingly awesome, and other times it burns and hurts, and you just want it out immediately. #facts. Bottom-line, sex should always be about pleasure, so if anything causes yucky feelings and pain, that's not fun. Over the years I've heard some men (no man of mine) say "ohhh, women's bodies are meant for it (anal sex), because they're used to penetration and it's right beside their vagina". Umm, no. That's totally wrong. Again, you have understand that while the butt area is an erogenous zone, people receive pleasure from varying levels of activity back there. For example some women may enjoy being teased in that area, and that might be enough for them (touching, rubbing, licking). Others might prefer toys such as butt plugs, anal beads or your finger. You really don't know until you ask and try it. Personally, I think butt plugs are the absolute best! For me they give me all the positive physical sensations of anal sex, but none of the burning or pain. Obviously, butt plugs don't move back and forth on their own, they stay in place, but when a woman is wearing a butt plug during vaginal sex it produces a lot of really good sensations, and for the guy she's having sex with -- he enjoys the sensations he is feeling as well. I've found it works well for both parties, and it's a introduction into more backdoor play. Butt plugs come in various sizes, so I always buy different ones to see which I like best. The biggest thing to remember is all women are going to be a little different in terms of what they like and how they feel about anal play. It's best to be patient and keep in mind that pleasure and enjoyment for both you and your partner is the name of the game, period.
SEX TALK WITH DANA: First of all thank you for all the very interesting questions. You guys really gave me some good ones. I decided to answer the one I received twice, which was: ARE YOU ABLE TO ACHIEVE AN ORGASM WITH JUST PENETRATION OR DO YOU NEED CLITORAL STIMULATION TOO? This is really a fantastic question, because even women are perplexed by our bodies in this way. If you think about it, it's very strange (and wonderful) that we have these different erogenous zones and can have orgasms from a couple different locations, lol. The clitoral orgasm is definitely the most common, and if you think about it, it makes sense because it's easy access. It's on the outside of the body and easy to reach. It's the area girls first discover as we are coming of age. Obviously, most people masturbate a while (sometimes years) before we become sexually active, and girls are no different, we learn how to get ourselves off early on usually in the shower using the detachable sprayer. In my teeen years I spent soooo much time in the shower, lol. For some reason that warm water jetting out just hit the spot better than anything else. So, then the time comes when you get a boyfriend and you start having sex, and it's like...you mean this is what's supposed to be so great??? And this is a very common feeling among girls at that age, because we were under the belief that when he "put it in" and moved back and forth we were going to suddenly see stars and it was going to be just like the shower sprayer orgasms except way better, but nope that doesn't happen for the majority of the girls. So, then I started figuring out that I needed to get my boyfriend in the same area as my shower sprayer, lol!! I was doing little sexual experiments to see what worked for me and what didn't. My first boyfriend had a 10" penis, and I had no idea it was anything special, because I had nothing to compare it to. I only knew his size, because one day we measured it, but anyway at the time he had no clue how to use it, and he would cum after about 3-5 minutes of sex, so I never had any time during sex to make much happen for myself. But we had A LOT of sex that year we dated!! Once we skipped school together and hung out at his house and had sex 11 times that day, so we were definitely trying to learn and get some sexual experience, but still I was only having orgasms when I would masturbate alone. It was really frustrating, because I couldn't figure out how to merge the two. No one ever said, ''hey kid you've gotta rub your clit while you're having sex", duh!! Access to porn wasn't readily available then. You really had to figure out a lot on your own or through talking to older people that were cool enough to tell you things. Sometimes older people tell you sexual things that seem shocking at the time, like you're just not ready for all that yet. So, back to the original point -- girls start out with clitoral orgasms by far the most, and as we grow and learn about sex we sometimes get lucky and start having vaginal orgasms, and when you first have one you are on cloud 9. It feels different, more intense. It's like a clitoral orgasm that's deep inside, and to have one all the planets have to align. I once dated a guy for several years and the shape of his cock was ideal for vaginal orgasms, and I had them regularly. In order for it to happen I always had to be on top of him, and instead of moving up and down on him in a vertical motion, I had to slide back and forth or even better if he controlled my hips and pushed me back and forth. So, it is possible to have vaginal orgasms from penetration alone, and it's a great thing when it happens, but it's not always guaranteed, and for me I have to be in the right position with the right person. My mind has to be clear and my body very relaxed. That's why I say the planets have to align (at least for me). Otherwise, I love to use a small vibrator during sex. It's a magical addition, and guaranteed orgasms. BTW, no guy should ever be offended by this. If you're with a woman and she wants to bring some enhancement toys to bed, by all means encourage that, because it just means she's very comfortable with you, and she's planning on having a-real-good-time, and you are the beneficiary. It does NOT mean that you can't satisfy her, trust me. That thought shouldn't even cross your mind. If I were with a guy and he said he was offended by me using toys during sex, I would definitely say BYE! This would be a huge problem for me, because I like all the pleasure I can get, I'm greedy, and I think my partner should be all for it if it means I'm really enjoying myself. A butt plug and/or vibrator are great additions to sex and they don't get in the way. I think of them as little enhancements, and they actually take some of the work/pressure off of the guy. For me a vibrator works much better and more efficiently than my hand or my partner's hand. Next question...
Some of you have been asking if I would do some "sex talk with Dana" posts where I answer frequently asked questions from subscribers. I thought Monday would be a great time to get started. By far the most common question(s) I get asked are related penis size. Does size matter? What's the perfect size? Am I doomed if I have an average sized or small cock? Does my BIG dick turn you on (then sends pic). Disclaimer: I can only give you "my" personal opinion. Obviously, I don't speak on behalf of all women, only myself. First of all, no matter what size your penis is you must learn to be a good lover, and that should be your focus. Sex is a multi-faceted-complex sport, and it's not all about your penis. There's nothing more disappointing to a woman than a big dick guy who's lazy in bed, because he has trained himself to believe that his penis alone will satisfy her, lol. Umm, no. The thing that fucks women's minds up the most (in a good way) is sexual passion. When men know how to bring that emotional heat that transfers into physical action it's like...oh fuck, it's over, I'm dead. Those are the encounters you never ever forget. Sadly, you rarely see it in porn, because obviously porn isn't real and the actors typically don't have a connection, and it shows.
Back to penis size...for me I do like a big penis, because it feels good to be stretched, and I get aroused from challenging my body with pleasure and pain. What's a big penis? I think 8-10 inches in length is big. But the truth is 2 guys could be the exact same length, yet feel totally different. That's why I think most women are hesitate to claim a favorite length. Girth, shape and hardness play VERY important roles!!! It's interesting because my favorite realistic dildo is a thick 7", but it looks really big because it's so fat. If I were building the perfect penis for me I would make the base the thickest part. I love it when it gradually gets thicker as it goes in, and at the end of each stroke there's that extra wide surprise. Mmm. Anyway, moving on so yeah obvious it's nice to have a big penis, but please perfect your craft and learn to use your mouth and hands. Kissing is soooo important, it's probably the #1 thing that gets me wet. Kissing the neck feels really good too. What can I do if I don't have a big penis? If you don't have a big penis don't worry about it, because the truth is soooo many women DO NOT care. I mean they don't care at all. In fact some women prefer average to smaller, because it feels more comfortable for them. I believe men and women can be more or less physically compatible down there, size wise, lol. Perhaps vaginas are just reverse penises, so they come in different sizes and shapes as well. That is why asking women about penis size is subjective and opinions vary. I don't think men should put too much concern into it, because when women get together and the topic of sex pops-up, you rarely hear them mentioning penis size. They tend to be more impressed by a guy's pussy eating / finger-banging game, and of course just the guy's overall personality and sweetness. Direct your next sex questions to my inbox and I will answer in order they were asked.
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Hi babes, New content coming tomorrow!! Both regular videos and photos as well as ppv vids/pics! You will love what I have in store for you!! In other news unfortunately my trip to FL was canceled (by me). There were just way too many obstacles with the winter weather making it very difficult for me to leave. It was one thing after another, and I simply decided yesterday that this trip wasn't meant to be. It just felt all wrong like the intelligent thing to do is wait until this harsh weather passes. Yeah, I lost $2,000 on half of the house rental that I had paid for, but I suppose that's the way it goes.
Yesterday, was a TRIP! I got stuck in my driveway 3 TIMES!!! And before you ask "yes" I have a 4x4 truck and yes my driveway was just plowed. However, ice doesn't give a sh*t about any of that, lol!! We are definitely having an old fashioned winter!! It's pretty amazing, but definitely presents its challenges.
Good Tuesday morning babes! How's everyone's day going? I hope it's beautiful! This morning when I first checked messages on here I had some interesting questions come across my desk. One member asked, "are you happy" and if so "how do you achieve happiness"? The person went on to say they were 31 yrs old, and not happy very often, and they always found themselves seeking out and befriending/dating other miserable/unhappy people, because then at least they didn't feel alone in their emotional trials. He ultimately wanted to know how I found happiness and if I had any tips that may help him. First of all let's be real...no one is happy all the time. Life is not meant to be that way. Life is a balance, and we all must face dark times as well as joyful moments, and then there are often periods when everything feels dull, boring and routine. This is life. No one escapes this cycle, and for some people it feels like a roller coaster. The only thing that truly impacts this dynamic is how we choose to deal with it. It's how we formulate our outlook. Why not look at sadness and boredom as a challenge...even an opportunity??? Perhaps, those emotions are prompting you to make a change. Even small changes can make a huge difference. The older I get the more I realize that boredom is often confused with being "unhappy". The most people I know on anti-depressants aren't truly depressed or sad, they are bored. They choose to keep a very boring, routine, lack-luster life and then wonder why they're not happy. And a lot of that is laziness believe it or not. It's much easier to do the same ole thing everyday than it is to create something new and exciting. A lot of people make the mistake of looking to other people to entertain them or create interest for them, which doesn't always work. You are in control of your own happiness. As far as my tips for happiness I try to stay busy as much as possible, and I think that is basically good advice across the board for almost everyone. Being productive and successful at whatever you are doing in life (ie. your career, a job, hobbies, relationships) definitely makes us feel happier. Avoid toxic people. Yes, avoid them completely or limit their access to you. Toxic people indirectly rob you of your good energy, and often leave you feeling down. Try to surround yourself with upbeat outgoing types of people. They don't have to be perfect, but the relationship shouldn't be taxing. They shouldn't "want" anything from you other than your company when you are available, good times, some laughs, interesting conversation, and versa visa. And for the record there's nothing wrong with needing help from a friend once in a while or them from you, BUT the relationship shouldn't be based on that. More later...